
I’m settling into my third week back at the old grind. The pace is slow as projects are assigned one by one. This is beneficial as to not inherit others' problems. I can ease into finding my way in the system. I wonder how far I will get before I’m completely disillusioned and disenfranchised from the North American world longing for something different.
As I reflect on our trip I am adjusting ok. Writing this post has been emotional for me as I remember my experiences and reflect on the impact on our family. In some circles, there is not that much interest around our trip. People can’t relate, I suppose. Who takes a year off, let alone travels to 17 countries around the world logging tens of thousands of kilometres over land by car, bus and rail, by sea, and by air - with two kids in tow? It was and will remain truly ours. It will be our family experience to keep with us always.
As I reflect on our trip I am adjusting ok. Writing this post has been emotional for me as I remember my experiences and reflect on the impact on our family. In some circles, there is not that much interest around our trip. People can’t relate, I suppose. Who takes a year off, let alone travels to 17 countries around the world logging tens of thousands of kilometres over land by car, bus and rail, by sea, and by air - with two kids in tow? It was and will remain truly ours. It will be our family experience to keep with us always.

Was it worth it? How do you put a value on this experience except to measure value in the good times we shared together. I had my moments of doubt though when we had our family stresses (yes they did happen) that resulted in conflict. There was conflict between the kids, between the kids and us, and between us as spouses. There were times when it felt like a matter of endurance – enduring a place or each other until the next stop. It certainly cost a lot of money and an opportunity cost associated with the spending of the money we saved on our trip, versus paying off our house or the purchase of some other tangible item – say a new car or a house full of the latest modern gadgets and electronics. We’ll forego the super LED LCD HDTV for now and stay with our decade old CRT TV. But our trip was truly an accomplishment. A joint accomplishment but lots of credit is due Kathi.
As for the kids, they are happy to be home but sometimes recall fond memories of events on our trip. Only time will tell how it moves them in areas of maturity and understanding of their place in the world. They are certainly more knowledgeable of world events, places and bits of politics and history way beyond their years. They can place cities and countries that adults cannot, let alone their peers. Especially Jackson, who at eight years old, has taken on recognizing and identifying dozens upon dozens of international and regional flags. They can visualize places and the faces, and the sights and sounds of some familiar and some very foreign lands.
As for the kids, they are happy to be home but sometimes recall fond memories of events on our trip. Only time will tell how it moves them in areas of maturity and understanding of their place in the world. They are certainly more knowledgeable of world events, places and bits of politics and history way beyond their years. They can place cities and countries that adults cannot, let alone their peers. Especially Jackson, who at eight years old, has taken on recognizing and identifying dozens upon dozens of international and regional flags. They can visualize places and the faces, and the sights and sounds of some familiar and some very foreign lands.

One standout experience for me, for example, is life in Vietnam. There is the tug and pull of the memory of the streets of Hanoi, Vietnam where the sidewalks - where there are any - are jammed with motorbikes forcing one to walk along the road. You take your life in your hands as you attempt to cross multiple lanes of bikes going in both directions that ignore the traffic signs and laws. The noise and chaos motivates a yearning to leave - as soon as possible - but the stimulation exacts an excitement and happiness within for having been there.
Another observation of the ‘new world’ occurred to me yesterday. People around seem to be strutting around in an air of entitlement, arrogant in their behaviour. This is much like us beforehand, as Kathi rightly points out. People who haven’t travelled seem to be oblivious to the realities of the world beyond these borders, self-absorbed in the minutia of their own lives. When you have experienced a flash flood, as we did travelling overland by bus in Tanzania, and with the recall of the recognition of a real and possible danger, one can relate better to the floods of Pakistan half a world away. For us, including the kids, our experiences of the news, a movie, or a book are brought more alive as result - from the recent flooding in the mid-western U.S., to the streets of Tokyo in a movie, or the lines of a Hemingway book set in Paris, because we have lived it.















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Our motoring excursion around the north island of New Zealand has taken us over 1200km from Auckland and back traveling clockwise to the east coast, through the middle, and on and up the west coast. After Rotorua, we drove though the central lake town of Lake Taupo and on to Napier. Our daytime drives were at a leisurely pace, never exceeding four or five hours – something I enjoy very much.

















Our last night in Auckland was a quiet one of dinner in and some TV at a lodge near the airport. The next morning we left Auckland at 7:00 AM for Apia, Samoa. 




Queensland Art Gallery:
The rest of the coast line has been a bit of a blur. There is just not enough time to do it justice. The southern route continued to Byron Bay known for it’s surfin’ waves and alternative lifestyle, (where we camped right next to the South Pacific ocean beach), Nambucca Heads, Southwest Rocks, Port Stephens/One Mile Beach -another beautiful surfing spot- and finally Narrabeen just on the outskirts of Sydney.




